Hai sorry I haven't been blogging, haven't been able to access my account :(
Loads of you have been asking about tips for making friends so I decided to make a blog post about it.
This is often a horrible dilemma that occurs at school.
At my school, every year the whole year is mixed up and I am never with my friends so I find myself
making new friends every year which is really annoying!
So trust me when I say, I have been in this situation sooo many times!
HERE ARE SOME VERY HELPFUL TIPS ABOUT MAKING FRIENDS AND SURVIVING HIGH SCHOOL!
- I hate to sound like a mom but be yourself. Honestly. I know a girl who acts differently around people and no one likes her that much because she never acts like herself.
- Following on from that, don't change around others.
- Be confident. If you spot a group of friendly-looking girls go up to them and say hi. They won't bite! Making friends is all about putting in effort to talk to people and chat with a mixed crowd.
- At every school there is always a 'Queen Bee' who thinks their Blair Waldorf and can control people. DO NOT give into these kind of people, the kinds who think their so popular and cool and dominating. If they ask you to carry their things, calmly say no thanks and walk away. PLEASE DO NOT GIVE IN!!! It won't make you popular it will make them think they can take advantage of you!
- Following on from that, don't let anyone take advantage of you. Don't be timid. Be you! I'm not saying to act loud and confident if you're a genuinely quiet person - I am very quiet however I don't let anyone take advantage of me. For example if someone says, 'you can't wear that! You have to wear this!' Say, I can wear what I want and walk away calmly and cooly.
- Make the effort with all the friends you make. Sit next to them in class if you want to. Chat with them at break. If you make the effort, they should make the effort too. However if they make no effort at all in your friendship there is not much point, just say you always wait for them but they never wait for you or you always stick up for them but they never stick up for you. Those are key examples of not too good friends.
- Lastly, don't abandon your friends for new friends. Share your time equally with the new friends you make and your old friends. You may have some friends in another class you can spend time with.
Hope that helped ;) Stay awesome and play Minion Rush and read planetjoyce219.blogspot.co.uk!! :)
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